Lately, I’ve been realizing how strange it feels to grow out of an old version of yourself without fully stepping into the next one. It’s not dramatic or loud- it’s gradual. It shows up in new habits, small decisions and moments where you find yourself responding differently than before.
Over the past year, that shift has been quite apparent in my own life. Not in one big event, but in the way my priorities have changed, the way I think, the people I choose, and the standards I hold myself to. Growing up isn’t a straight line, and honestly, it’s more about paying attention to what’s changing than trying to force anything to happen.
That’s part of the reason I wanted to start writing. Not to document the dramatic chapters, but the subtle ones. The moments that might seem insignificant now but will probably make sense later when I look back and connect the dots.
I think it’s important to note *I’m not writing from a place of “I’ve figured it out”. Im writing from a sense of awareness; noticing the shifts, progress, uncomfortable parts, and the small wins that usually go unnoticed. It feels right to put words into this chapter of my life instead of letting it pass by quietly.
If you’re in your own transition period, not stuck, just slowly moving into a better version of yourself, then you’ll probably understand this space more than anyone. So here’s to the middle; the part that isn’t polished, predictable, or perfect. That part still counts.
Not yet – but getting there. And for now, that’s enough.
–F.
Halfway to Something 
I can’t wait to go on this beautiful journey with you!!!
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this is so beautifully written. i came across this blog accidentally and its the best thing i have seen today. i think this is something everyone needs to read as it relates to anyone and everyone. Looking forward to more blogs!!
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It’s official, I have goosebumps! Wow. This is beyond beautifully written, Flo. Words cannot describe how proud I am of the strong, ambitious, genuinely kind woman you are. The world truly needs a light like you. I am so honoured to know you and to be here along this journey. Halfway to Something gives meaning to what feels ordinary, unordinary, and all that lies in between, and for that, I thank you. I thank you for creating a safe space where people feel heard, validated, reassured, and reminded that there is purpose within everything. Whether you know it or not, this is groundbreaking, and you are taking a courageous step toward positive discussion and change that the world needs to see<3
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Flo, this was so beautifully written. I felt like I was reading my own inner dialogue. Even though you and I are in such different stages of our lives, your writing resonated with me and touched on so many of my own inner thoughts. What a beautiful experience it is to read someone else’s words and feel as though the writer is speaking directly to me. I am so excited to read what’s next!
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I loved reading this! You write so beautifully!
I’m really proud of you for paying attention to yourself, for honouring this in-between stage, and for choosing to write from a place of honesty, instead of pretending to have everything figured out.
Seeing you change at your own pace, with intention and awareness, makes me so excited for everything you’re stepping into, inshAllah. I can’t wait to read more of these chapters as you write them. Even here, in the middle of it all, you’re growing more than you realize, and I’m so proud of you. 💖
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wow. this is so well written flo I’m genuinely so proud of you and I cannot wait to come back every week to read more!! i love you❤️
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